I have watched my friend overcome the loss of her best friend for over a year now. She is a great person as well as a talented writer. I highly recommend this blog to anyone that has lost someone dear to them.
ok..advice! i've never asked advice on tumblr so here we go;
i really like this guy, and he's a 'bad boy' haha, he used to be a player but apparently he's not like that & i heard when he's a boyfriend, he treeats the girl like an princess, he hangs out with some of my friends he smokes, andd all that, but all my friends do and whatever. At a few of my parties he started flirting and we kissed. The next weekend we got together, and he stayed here until 5amand we cuddled. After that we stopped talking as much and i felt like i was getting played. He barely talks to me anymroe but still gives me "that look" .. i know he's done with me.... but everyones saying.. if you think its worth it keep going for him.. what should i do?
thank you <3
I am a big believer that everything is situational and depends on the specifics involved. It is hard not to let friends views influence yours so make sure your thoughts sprung from your mind. People can also help my putting you in someone else’s shoes. In regards to him, people can change certain traits, I personally have, but it depends on the person. If you like this guy be aware that the worst thing that could happen is he says no or you get denied. If we did not take risks or chances then we are not living and not gaining. If you think he is worth taking a chance on then go for it. Talk to him and see what he wants. Know it may not work out but know that it very well may. Life is all about gains and losses. As long as you learn from the bad and good then you’ll be fine. Just listen to yourself and what you think.
As I go on through life I further grasp the idea that shit happens. Sometimes a ton of negative things spring up on you all at once, other times everything is perfect. What we need to accept is that life is a roller-coaster; it starts, it turns, it flips, it speeds up, and eventually comes to an end before you know it. How we handle those flips and turns along the way is who we are. Most situations are unavoidable but if we handle them correctly then we can enjoy the ride. Getting upset over things you cannot change is a waste of time. Use your time wisely, whatever that entails. The most important thing is to be happy, YOU are the source of your happiness.